Hi, I'm Stef.

Elder at Revelation Church London and part of the Relational Mission apostolic team. Most weeks I'm training, travelling, and helping churches and leaders grow.

I love to write

Whether it's Avoiding the Hall of Mirrors—on how spiritual darkness distorts our relationships—or Gender Quality—on God's design for unity in our asymmetry—I hope my books help the Church explore how what we believe shapes how we relate.

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Stef's books including 'Avoiding the Hall of Mirrors'

I love the church

I lead Relational Mission training courses and serve on the apostolic team with Mike Betts and Maurice Nightingale, encouraging church planting and mission. Generous churches and individuals make this ministry possible.

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Stef and team on stage at church training event

I love to connect

Reach out on socials with questions about culture, faith, and life — I love helping the church think through what the Bible says on these topics.